Why you are here now is surely no mere coincidence or a function of fate and random chance. You are brought here for a purpose and for a reason.

Welcome to my personal blog,

CONFLICTS and TRIUMPHS
Life of a Discreet Struggling Christian Homosexual


Basically, this blog is about my life as a Christian who have been struggling in the mire of homosexuality. Through this blog, I will share with you how my life has been from the past to the present. I will share with you the conflicts and triumphs I experienced-- the events, problems, and issues I have encountered along the way; the pain, the tears and the burden of having something I don't want; the loneliness and difficulty of struggling alone; the unanswered questions, uncertainties, apprehensions, the fears and worries, etc.; and the how I dealt with all of them. I will share to you my life story beginning from my eventful early childhood, to my rough teenage years, and up to the present.

Primarily, I created this blog to be an extension of my thoughts, an avenue to express my insights and feelings, a means to share my opinions and perspectives, a vent to pour out my joys and frustrations and speak out my heart, and ultimately a way for me to personally reach out to, encourage and inspire others who are in a similar situation as I am.

To date, I still am a struggling homosexual, wrestling against this overwhelming spiritual malady for years --sometimes winning but most of the times falling. I feel tired and worn. I have done terrible things. Sin has kept me slave for the most part. Many times I find myself on the verge of quitting, even to the point of hoping to die so all of this shall end. However, the abundant grace of God, the love of Jesus, and the power of the Holy spirit keeps me right on track and always gets me back up to my feet again. God never gave up on me. Inspite of my repeated wanderings, I still feel his presence surrounding me, his arms around me. His love sustains me even in my worst times. His grace compels me not to quit but keep on. Despite the appalling force of the Devil and the overwhelming weakness of my corrupted human nature, my candle is still burning with faith and hope that with continued perseverance and trust in the Almighty God, I will come out victorious. In the end, it doesn't matter how long or short you fought or how fierce the fight was, as long as you fought a good fight and emerged triumphant.

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As of the moment, the rest of this blog is still under construction. This landing page you are viewing right now is only temporary. My very hectic schedule is preventing me from devoting the needed amount of time to finally complete and launch this blog. However, with the highest amount of certainty, I assure you that this blog will be fully functional very soon. Just hang in there. :) Better yet, bookmark this site now.

In the meantime, I would like to grab this opportunity to appeal to you. I want this blog to not only contain my life story but yours as well. I highly encourage you to write down your thoughts, personal stories, pressing issues and concerns, words of encouragements, and valuable insights on things concerning the life of a homosexual Christian. Share it here and have it published in the site for others to read. The reason for this is because I strongly believe that just like you and me, there are many other Christians out there who are silently and desperately struggling with homosexuality -- ALONE. Life can be very difficult. I can attest that there can be nothing worse than having your heart in conflict with your mind, your emotions against reason, and your life against your beliefs and ideals. For a Christian, knowing that your sexuality contradicts God's design and purpose can be very difficult and distressing which is further complicated by society's expectations, prejudice and discrimination. Having said that, it is my goal that this site be of tremendous help to all especially to those who are in pain -- unknown to their family, friends, and loved ones. My testimony, your testimony, our testimonies -- can be the very instrument the Holy Spirit will use to give them strength, courage, and the willingness and power to overcome.

You can send your literary contributions to conflictsandtriumphs@yahoo.com. Remember, sharing promotes meditation, reflection, and integration on your part. So it will not only benefit your personal and spiritual life but as well as those reading it. In fact, as i am typing these words, I feel spiritually invigorated and I feel joy recalling how good and merciful God has been amidst my faults and shortcomings. I am reminded once again that He is always there especially when you need Him most.
I believe that sharing means growing and learning. The story you share can potentially bless the lives of the readers.
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Soon, everything in this world will come to an end. Only the righteous, by God's grace, shall remain. The things in this world and all it's evil corruptions shall soon forever be banished. Worldly pleasures and moral decadence shall cease. Sadness and pain will forever be forgotten. The best is yet to come to those who stay faithful to God no matter what.

As we continue our spiritual struggle, it is worthwhile to remember that having the homosexual "tendencies" and "inclinations" is NOT sinful, but giving in to them would surely lead to sinful acts. Having a homosexual feeling and "acting" on that feeling are two different things. Acknowledging and accepting that we feel different from the rest doesn't separate us from our God. It should rather help us to deal with things squarely, maturely, and in the righteous way. The more we feel the gravity of our fallen nature and the more we feel we are a sinner, the more dependent we become on God and the closer He comes to take us by the hand.

I am a homosexual. I am a sinner just like anybody else. But I know God loves me and He will never forsake me. He knows that I was born into this sin-sick world, a victim of circumstance. I did not choose the way I am nor do I rejoice in how I feel. He sees in my heart that constant desire and the conscious effort not to give in to my unnatural desires. He knows my human nature. And so He gives more grace.

God loves the worst of sinners, forgives and receives those who are penitent, and embraces everyone who comes to him. If He loves me, surely so do you.

In our personal and spiritual warfare, let us put on a good fight. Earthly pleasures are but temporal. What is at hand is eternal. So let us not grow tired and weary. After all, with Christ Jesus on our side, we are more than conquerors!

God bless you!


"True happiness only comes from knowing you are right with God; It stems from having a close relationship with Him"

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Homosexuality: The Christian Perspective (Part 3)


Q11. Do you believe that the homosexual controversy is causing problems for the churches of America?
Evil in any form is a problem in the church. It always has been. The greater problem, however, is the church's failure to discipline evil when it arises. Karl Menninger's book, Whatever Became of Sin?, deals directly with that point. There are ministers, priests, and rabbis who never talk about sin. There was a time when the minister of God's Word preached the whole counsel of God. Today many pulpits are silent on the sin question. Sin has become fashionable and therefore acceptable. When sin gets its victim into serious difficulty, the psychiatrist and psychologist tell him he is sick. The church must face the fact of sin squarely.

Q12. Does the Bible tell us how the church should deal with sexual sins?
In Old Testament times in Israel God dealt severely with homosexuals. He warned His people through Moses, "If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them" (Leviticus 20:13). Every Jew knew that homosexuality was an abomination, a disgusting practice to be loathed, hated. This was God's attitude toward that evil practice. He hated it to the extent that He considered it worthy of punishment by death. Now God loved His people Israel dearly, and it was from His great heart of love that He chastened them. The Epistle to the Hebrews says, "For whom the Lord loveth He chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom He receiveth" (Hebrews 12:7). When God issued His law forbidding homosexuality, and the punishment for those persons who violated that law, He did so in order to prevent them from sinning. However, when anyone broke the law, the offender paid the penalty due him. God is a holy God who hates and judges sin. Parents who love their children will not refrain from warning them of prevailing evils, nor will they fail to chasten them when they disobey. The church today not only tolerates sin but in some instances condones it. God does neither.

In the New Testament the principle of discipline was applied with apostolic authority. In the church at Corinth the young man who was committing fornication with his step-mother was excommunicated. Paul instructed the church to take that action "in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ . . . and with the power (i.e. the authority) of our Lord Jesus Christ" (I Corinthians 5:1-8). In Romans 1:21-32 where Paul shows the Gentile world in its downward plunge into sin, including the sin of homosexuality, verse 32 concludes with the words, "who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death . . . " Worthy of death, yes. But today we are not under law but under grace. People used to hear and heed the Gospel-truth, the message that God is holy, man is a sinner, and that through faith in the substitutionary death and bodily resurrection of Jesus Christ, sinful people can be born again and thereby delivered from the guilt and penalty and practice of their sins.

Q13. Do you have any suggestions or recommendations for the church?
Nothing is more foundationally essential for the church and the world than a return to the truth. Recently I read where someone said we are suffering from a famine of the worst kind, "a truth-famine." Our modern culture is in a degenerating, deteriorating stage caused by a departure from the truth. And I must say unequivocally that truth does not exist independently of God, and His written Word the Bible, and His Son Jesus Christ. Truth is in no sense of man's imagination or contrivance. Man in his fallen state does not know truth, and that is why he continues to go on sinning. A civilization without the truth is doomed to oblivion. Every ancient civilization that ignored God and His laws has crumbled. Our present civilization is well on the road to doom. We cannot survive independently of God and His Word.

The Church must return to the truth, the whole truth, the sum total of truth founded and grounded upon Him Who said, "I am the truth" (John 14:6). In our Lord's high priestly prayer for His own He prayed, "Sanctify them through Thy truth: Thy Word is truth" (John 17:17). There must be in our churches the clear exposition of the Scriptures and a continuing exaltation of the Person and work of the Lord Jesus Christ if our civilization is to be saved from the disasters that overcame past civilizations. Any civilization with a philosophy or a doctrine which denies the real truth cannot survive.

Q14. Do you see any prophetic significance in the recent homosexual upsurge?
Yes, I do. However, I would suggest caution on this point. It is not uncommon for preachers to attach a prophetic meaning to every earthquake, riot, war, moral scandal or political disaster, labeling all such events as "signs of the times."
The modern homosexual upsweep is one phase of a declining trend in morals. When the disciples asked our Lord, "What shall be the sign of Thy coming, and of the consummation of the age?" He told them that "iniquity shall abound" (Matthew 24:3, 12). There is today a permissiveness and a promiscuity in sexual behaviour unprecedented in the history of America. There is little restraint upon the widespread of material containing pictures and writing depicting erotic behaviour intended to cause sexual excitement. This would be included in our Lord's prophecy about abounding iniquity.
There is also a prophetic statement in Paul's Second Epistle to Timothy which has some bearing upon the subject we are discussing. Paul said, "This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection . . . " (II Timothy 3:1-3). Homosexuality is an unnatural affection, practiced by persons "that defile themselves with mankind" (I Timothy 1:10), translated in the New American Standard Version "homosexuals," and in the New International Version, "perverts." I conclude, in the light of these Scriptures, that the rise of homosexuality is very definitely a trend which indicates the approaching end of the age.

Q15. Have you personally counseled with homosexuals?
Yes, in two pastorates over a period of twenty-five years. In each instance the homosexual was a man in his thirties who had seduced teen-aged boys. The seduction of younger persons is a pattern most homosexuals follow. They seem to prefer gratifying their lust with youth. This is a pattern typical of men who marry several wives. Men who do not respect their marriage vows pursue women younger than themselves. One man of wealth was reportedly married and divorced six times. Most of his wives were young enough to be his daughters. The two homosexual men who applied for a marriage license in the Maricopa County Clerk's Office in Arizona were 39 and 21 years old, quite a variation in ages.


Part 1


Part 2


Part 4


Credits:
This article was written by
Lehman Strauss at www.bible.org

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